Tuesday, March 4, 2008

10 Tips For Online Dating

By Juan Rodriguez Villa Ok, now that you have decided to go online dating, there are some details you might want to consider before entering the internet with all your passion and determination looking for a beautiful female that has the same desires as you have. I am going to give you 10 tips that will help you achieve total success in your first attempt to online dating. No matter if you are an online dating expert or this is the first time you try. If you read carefully and put to use my "10 tips for online dating" I am sure you will be knocking on the door of success immediately. 1. Don't reveal too much information about you. You are trying to meet a hot girl online, but you don't have to let her know each one of your intentions. You better act more than talk. If you want to do something, do it but don't talk about it. Do not let your superficial side be noticed by her. If you are thinking of "something" doesn't mean you have to tell her. 2. Be specific when you talk about your interests. If you want to talk about your hobbies or interests, do not talk about them generally. Everybody can name a long list of activities or hobbies they might like, no matter if it is true or not. You have to be original and you need to talk about your interests related to you. With this, I mean if you want to talk about your passion for hiking, talk about when do you like hiking, which are the best places for hiking in your opinion, what has been your best hiking experience lately...as long as you stay personal when talking about your interests, you will awake a true interest in the person that is at the other side of the computer. 3. Describe yourself with anecdotes, not simple adjectives. Even your mother or your grandma can write a pretty good list of adjectives to describe themselves. Everybody can turn into a skilled writer, at least when it comes to describing ourselves. In our case, if you want to impress your potential online date, you have to be particular, you have to be individual and personal when describing yourself. Try to be as authentic as possible when you tell her about your qualities. Be honest, be real, but at the same time keep in mind tip number 1. 4. Quit playing games. Unless you want her to play with you, do not play with her. If you want honesty, give honesty. If you want laughing, give laughing, if you want passion, give passion. This is very obvious, but at the same time few people acts this way when they go online. If you tell her your intentions in a polite and well mannered way she will respond to you the same way. 5. Avoid subjective evaluations about yourself. Watch the bragging. There is a fine line between talking about yourself in a deep way and showing off. Be yourself when talking about yourself. Show her how you are, don't tell her how you are. Show her how you are in the way your write, show her your sense of humour when you chat with her on the messenger...she will get to know you through your writing, through your picture and your sense of humour. Once again, be yourself. 6. Do not repeat what everyone else. The internet and the world of online dating is packed with lots and lots of "clichs". Leave the "I am looking for a partner in crime" or "a twin soul" for people without resources. You are much more original. Try to express yourself in a plain and colloquial way. Be original. This will pay off later. 7. Negativity is not a good friend. If you are in a bad mood, if you feel sad or depressed she will know it very easily. Try to be optimistic and positive. If you feel bad maybe you should tell her to go online tomorrow. It is way much better to keep the positive and good mood instead of ruining your online achievements because of a bad day. Be smart. 8. Define yourself by what you want. People shouldn't feel personally indicted by your essays. If you think you have dated enough people to determine that you don't want someone who's a liar, who is grossly overweight, or who is unemployed, it is ok for you, but please turn those negatives into positives or just leave them out of the game. 9. Tell the truth. 10. Please, tell the truth. I could write a list of 100 tips to easy online dating, and 90 would be similar to this one. If you want to keep whatever good reputation you have built up please be honest with yourself and your counterpart. There are many honest online daters that see their reputation destroyed and insulted because of people without values or respect for the other online daters. At the other side of the computers, we are all human beings, and we can all be hurt in our feelings. Women or men, we all deserve respect and honesty. If you play by the rules I have just tried to explain, I can give you my word that you will be a 100% winner in the online daters world. Juan Rodriguez Villa is a consultant specializing in online dating. If you want to have more tips and advice in online dating please visit his website at http://easy-online-dating.blogspot.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Juan_Rodriguez_Villa http://EzineArticles.com/?10-Tips-For-Online-Dating&id=507480 ambien - sleep walking
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